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Show off your gifts

Cassie Minor started this conversation

Today, purpose to show love to someone. Each of us has individual gifts, so what you have to use only you know.

I have had, what I thought were passing conversations with people that made a significant impact in their lives. For example, I passed a young woman in a community college hall that was feeling discouraged because she did not get into dental hygiene school. I encouraged her and mentioned a few tips. A couple of years later she approached me to tell me she got in and that my words had changed her life. She explained that she felt defeated that day and was trying to figure out what direction to go. She found motivation in my few words. Wow, really? I remembered the situation, but in no way viewed it the way she did.

I am not trying to pat myself on the back, but to encourage others. We are islands in ourselves, but can do great things together.

Sure the grocery clerk is just doing her job, but why not let her know how you appreciate her. What about the friendly guy at the drive-thru window? These are the very people that could use some encouragement. Write a little note and stick it on a window.

My two cents--
Cassandra Minor

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What a wonderful post. It is a reminder to us of what a word of encouragement, an act of kindness, or a smile can do for someone. We never know what someone else is experiencing, or how much they need someone to reach out to them. I love the comment you made, "we are islands in ourself", it runs deep and has encouraged me to make a effort to reach out more, and show kindness in spite of how I might be treated, and in spite of my own situation. We do influence those around us and most of the time we don't even know how we have impacted their life, and wouldn't it be wonderful if we were remembered for the positive differences we make in life!
I am thankful that this lady made you aware of what transpired as a result of your encouragement. She made the effort to let you know how much you helped her, and in turn you made a post that can encourage us to try a little harder, be a little kinder, and a challenge to seek the opportunities to reach out to others.
I also wanted to let you know that I appreciate everything you write. I find myself encouraged through your words, and wisdom. You are an excellent example of what this site stands for, and I look forward to hearing more from you in the future.
God Bless
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